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The camping question
Posted 07/05/2011
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Loved one and I have come to an agreement. We both like camping, under certain circumstances. And we both hate camping, under certain circumstances.
So…we have been discussing how to have a camping experience that comes under the ‘like’ category. For both of us. And that’s the tricky bit.
I like camping when you can go for ages and not have to turn around and go home the minute you got there. I like it when it’s warm and sunny weather. I also like having mod cons to be able to relax a little and not feel like it’s all hard work. I love camp fires, especially when someone else does the cooking.
Loved one likes not spending too long camping because it’s not quite as easy as, say, being at home, or spending time in a self-catering cottage. He’s particularly keen on camp fires, and an ‘authentic’ experience, having spent time in the Sealed Knot and knowing exactly how authentic you can be.
There is some overlap here, but there are also some fundamental differences. Especially regarding the length of time. I would prefer to go south, ideally abroad, to improve chances of good weather, and I would like to go for long enough to make the drive worthwhile. Loved one, very much aware that ‘real’ camping is not the most comfortable option out there, would like to keep the experience short and sweet, so driving abroad and spending two weeks doing so is not a viable option for him.
The discussion became a little heated last night, when I pointed out that no matter how long you go camping for, the packing is still substantial, since you need a whole load more equipment than you ever would if you were staying in a self-catering cottage, and that generally speaking, I do the packing for all our holidays. He works hard at the office, I run the home and don’t like it when he mucks up my household routines, so me doing the packing is a given. I wasn’t so keen on monstrous packing for only two to three nights.
Loved one then managed to overcome the impasse by promising a non-camping two-week holiday in 2012. (He would have offered it for this year, but for our attempts to move house scuppering any plans for this summer.) By doing this, he gets to indulge in his camping fantasies the way he likes, I get to enjoy his campfire cooking, and can cope with not being very comfortable if it’s not for too long, and I still get a decent length holiday.
I’m still not keen on all the packing, though. Erk.
Wow, children are expensive
Posted 02/05/2011
on:We were on our way back from church this morning when middle child decided she’d like to have a go at Football Club at school. ‘Wonderful!’ I exclaimed, relieved that at least one child was even vaguely interested in something sporty.
‘Thanks, Mummy. I need shin pads and trainers.’
Oh. Bare legs and plimsolls are no longer sufficient. We about turn, since we’re all in the car anyway, and head off to the sports shop on the other end of town. Just as well she didn’t need proper football boots; I’d have had a hard time swallowing that.
En route I remember that oldest one’s tracksuit now fits middle child perfectly, but makes oldest one look like a dingle dangle scarecrow (without a flippy floppy hat). So I make an note to hunt down an appropriately-sized tracksuit for him while I’m at it.
Oldest child pipes up as we’re parking. ‘Mummy, please can I have some PE shorts that look like BOY’S shorts? I don’t like the ones I have.’
I admit, I only got those cycle shorts because they were nice and cheap. But I don’t blame him. So, shorts are added to the list.
We do the sports shop thing and I come out sixty-two pounds poorer (yes, I chose the cheapest option right the way through, and that’s still the price I had to pay). Then I come home, sort out their winter clothes from their summer clothes, chuck out (or give away) the ones that are torn, stained or more likely don’t fit any more and suddenly we have not enough clothes to last a weekend, or indeed a week at school.
I see May is going to be an expensive month, then. And I haven’t even had their shoe size checked yet.
I think I might eke that out till June, or else my bank card may start to give me disapproving looks and make tutting noises…